Dating...

Wow Philia, grats!

Back to main topic: Leon and I are celebrating our 3rd year anniversary this weekend!

oh. wait. wrong topic. oops.

I mean, you should hold the standards that you have. It could be that you're just not ready yet, too. Sometimes things happen in the most impossible way when you least expect it. I think the experiences you've had with the dates you didn't like help you steer away from those kind of people that eventually end up being those who you can't stand to live with. What's the point of getting yourself into a long-term dating experience if you're ultimately not compatible with them in a marriage?

You're not doing anything wrong, it's just you're in the wrong waters at the wrong season to be catching the "ideal" fish, metaphorically speaking.

Well, not to say that I'm looking, but if I was, I wouldn't waste my time looking but concentrate on bettering myself first (learning to be smarter, prettier, better shape, more educated, more money, etc. etc. etc.) and when the opportunity arises, I'll make damn sure he's a guy with standards, and thinks with his brain first before he starts even remotely thinking with his penis. This I learned from a few good long train-derailing avalanches of disastrous events.

Jam it back in, in the dark.