Being shy sucks, for real

Overcoming shyness can be little more than realizing that all people are essentially the same. That is, they mostly share the same sense of insecurity and flaw. (Its the tie that binds so to speak.)

I think identifying this idea is really what has allowed me to be less nervous when meeting new people. That is, I don't feel that I am alone in my sense of insecurity, however warranted or unwarranted I initially feel about the matter. Everyone wants to make a good first impression and most people are afraid to be themselves.

The difference between people who are shy and those who are not, is the LEARNED ability to try to correct a sense of nervousness as soon as it flares up. It takes work, but its worth it.

In any event, being shy isn't always a detriment. When meeting new people, remember to breathe deeply, relax, be yourself. Be real. Its an easy thing not to do when you are pressing yourself to be clever and interesting in front of new people.

If you are being yourself, regardless of whether or not you make a "good" first impression or not, at least you can walk away from any situation with little regret.

Trust me, it isn't the end of the world if expectations aren't met in the way we would like.
In short, who gives a shit what anyone thinks? Don't make mountains of mole-hills and I am sure you'll be okay.

Jam it back in, in the dark.