Apr 22, 2006, 09:29 AM
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There's no definitive age when you should have sex. Sure, there's stastical averages and all that but that's all they are, statistics and, if you're curious, the ages people lose their virginity are actually going up.
Regardless, the problem, I imagine, is either lack of options, or nervousness about the actual act. There's a lot of pressure for people these days to start shagging and it may make you self-concious if you haven't had sex while your friends already have. Society doesn't help, as I said, because you probably feel a little isolated that there may be something wrong with your or something like that, which in turn causes more stress making it even worse.
I have no idea what the case is with you but if you haven't had sex yet, who cares? It's only as big a deal as you make it. It's easy to feel like you're the only one on the planet who hasn't had sex at your age but trust me, you're not. The more you think about it and the more you let it bother you, the more you narrow down your options.
And, some people just aren't all that interested in sex. One of my roomates loves doing sexual stuff but isn't a huge fan of sex itself, she thinks it's actually kinda gross, lol. Well, whatever, my point is that you're not abnormal, there's nothing wrong with you, so stop worrying about it and focus on more important things...like ice cream.
mmmm...ice cream.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
Last edited by Kabukibear; Apr 22, 2006 at 09:33 AM.
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