Sep 16, 2006, 02:44 AM
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I hate it whenever people say that they just want kids because they're cute...
These people don't really give me the impression of having a genuinely good idea of what it's like to have kids or why people are happy having kids...
For me, even though I at the moment won't consider having kids, I think it kind of depends on having a partner who already loves you for who you are and then thinking about what to do with it.
I like to consider kids more like offspring than "pets" (something you get just because it's cute) like some people think, it's about having someone live a life of their own of whom you're a part, like how you're a decent part of their identity in more than just a conseptual/empirical relation.
(I hope I didn't offend anyone by saying this.)
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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