Getting over the looks

A wise man (Charles Barkley) said something to the effect that a relationship begins with a physical attraction but is taken to it's highest level with a mental attraction.

I think physical attraction is an important first step, but nobody is going to stay in a relationship with a supermodel who has a horrible personality. And not everyone needs a "10" anyway. Initial physical attraction can also include things like how happy/confident/social that person is and even the way they move. Nowadays, it's possible to get to know someone without seeing them. I don't think this is wrong, but I don't think it's ideal either.

Even though I'm married, I can still get self conscious if I meet a woman that I find pretty. But give me just a little time to get to know this person and I'll quickly return to my comfort zone. For me, spending time with someone is the best way to be able to ignore their appearance and really see who they are. And for that special someone in your life, your vision does tend to get warped by your feelings and will always be genuinely attracted to that person physically.

Later, when old age begins to interfere with looks, you'll notice that old age also affects your vision so you won't really be able to see all those wrinkles and gray hairs too well anyway.

Jam it back in, in the dark.