|
So where is your insight on this question?
Look, many here have yet to understand this kind of realtionship.
Its a frightening deal full of unknowns and theories. I was afraid of the relationship but fear doesnt stop me from being the best I can.
Its easy to just sit and judge but where is your experience, what makes you think I am in the wrong?
|
My insight comes from being a divorced parent. Where I think you sound like a creepy bastard is when you're talking about almost getting into fights with your wife's ex and that you're equally as important as the child's father.
I do understand this kind of relationship very well, and I do give you credit for realizing that the kid is important, whether or not you went a little far saying the relationship should be about the kid being number 1. Yes, of course the child should be considered, but to make him/her the main focus of your relationship just seems odd.
Why I said you could put single/divorced mothers off dating is the arrogance you put out. You sound like the type who believes he did this woman a great favor in taking on her and her child, and both of them should be grateful. I know men like you, who regard themselves as something to emulate, and I'm telling you it has never ended well. Well, that is unless you shut up and let the bastard gloat about how wonderful he is and don't try to be contrary.
There's nowhere I can't reach.
85242
35212
Midna