First "breakup"

Another chance? With a druggie?

Okay, I guess the reason you went out with her was cause she was good looking. If so: THERE ARE BAZILLIONS OF HOT CHICKS OUT THERE. My advice to you, take it or leave it, is to get back into doing the things you love so that you can stay yourself. And when you stay urself, an attractive AND nice (they do exist) girl will come to you. You don't find love, love finds you (this I can say from personal experience).

However, if you went out with her because she's nice: Bullshit. Everyone can be nice when they feel like it. It all comes down to trust really, and by your entries so far I concluded that she is a deceitful, dirty and unsympathetic girl who don't care about your feelings. Give her a miss.

And as I mentioned before, there are A GAZILLION other nice girls out there. Why limited yourself to this girl?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by SonicEchidna

This is true, and it works.

I've only had one major breakup in my life, and I found it really tough going. And to be fair, I don't think you ever get over it fully. Or maybe that's just me?

But yeah, the best thing that you can do is to try and do as many things as possible. Keep yourself busy. It will be hard, but the sooner you start your mind working on other things, then the pain will ease away.

Hmm... since all my old posts went down with the GFF crash, I'll say it again.

It's a psychological thing, once you think about depressing stuff, to reopen old wounds, past traumatic events and times when you feel like killing yourself. EMO music is okay... just as long as you are about to let out that anger/depression. If you bathe in it while listening to EMO music... well... You'll turn out like I was in Year 10 (which is not very good believe me).

Hang in there man. A girl far greater than your ex will come. The system works.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Living Legend

No, The reason I went out with her was because we connected so well, with music and art. I sadly met her online and I had no idea what she looked like, but I liked her from the beginning. When I met her, I did find her very attractive though....

...Oh well, I have to move on, and it's fucking not that easy.

No it's not easy... but hey as everyone else said, just go back to the things you enjoy.

Oh... the first impressions thing. I think that's only think prevent people in the world to actually have prolonged relationships. People are going on with their lives not really knowing that the girl they pick on at work/school is the one that they have a more fruitful relationship with, rather than the girl who seems pretty and nice.

But then again, it's hard to know who's a good person or not. You'll be fine anyways.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.