i want to be in love with you

Just curious, you mentioned in the other post that she can't let go of her past love, I assume it was her ex? What happened between them? Was she dumped or did she dump him then regretted (and everything was too late)? If anything, do you see any chance of them getting back together? If not, why not? Is the guy already dating another girl (or perhaps married) or something?

As a girl, I would only say 'I want to be in love with you...", follow with a "but........(insert some excuse here)" when I'm trying to reject someone. >_> I mean, if I LOVE somebody, like what Ayos mentioned in the other thread too, I wouldn't be "unsure" of it, or have any "but" and/or "maybe". I think if you two do start a relationship, it'd would be very difficult especially if she's still in love with that other person.... what if that other person asks her out after you guys start a relationship? If I am willing to give a try going out with someone (when I'm really in love with another person), I'd probably say "You know what, though I really love _____ and I can't forget him, but I want to leave that behind and move on with my life. You've been really great to me and I know how you feel about me... we can try it out..... what do you think? How about let's date?" instead of being uncertain like "I want to love you..but I dont know if I can do it...". I dunno, it just sounds more negative to me.

I think the biggest question is, if she can't let go of her old love, what's preventing them getting back together? You? Another girl? Or what?

Jam it back in, in the dark.