HAY GUYS

Paco · Local time: Sep 12, 2008, 07:43 AM

I can't possibly know what you're going through right now but, to relate, my girl is out on the road right now. If she asked me one day to pack up my shit and go find her, I would do it in a heartbeat. But see, I'm not in a desperate position where it feels like my only way out is chasing a boy or girl and it seems to me like that's what you did. I would do it if I had to be with her and because I KNOW for a fact I'd be happy wherever she is.

I knew a guy who did the same thing and he always told me it was the most terrifying experience of his life but he wanted to make sure he could make that relationship work. It couldn't. Now he lives in Corvalis, OR and he's happy (and single) there.

I guess what I'm saying is simple: If you're not happy, make yourself happy. How you go about doing that will probably become clear as time goes by.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Paco · Local time: Sep 13, 2008, 10:14 AM

Originally Posted by Denicalis

Anyone who moves around the world for a boy/girl is destined to feel unfulfilled and disappointed. You'll always be the one who displaced for them, and if it goes well, you're still sacrificing your own goals for their whims.

I came here from a different country. As far as I'm concerned, I was born displaced.

There's nowhere I can't reach.