What is cheating?

Like others have said, it really depends on the person. I think most everyone agrees that the intense physical stuff (kissing, sex) is cheating. Personally, I'd feel like this 'text dating' thing were cheating, mostly because of the pictures and especially if they did talk about how much they want to fuck each other. Its not physical cheating, but its definitely emotional, and sometimes I feel that the emotional cheating is worse than physical.

So it varies per person. When I found out that my last boyfriend called his ex before he even talked to me, I felt it was cheating, because he was already thinking about getting back with her before talking to me. I'm sure very few people would agree with me that that's cheating, but the fact that he acted on her before leaving me... seemed like cheating to me. It wasnt physical, but it was definitely emotional, and more than hurtful to me.

Jam it back in, in the dark.