The Downside of Sex

Maybe it's just me, but I didnt see it as a 'stay away from sex until marriage' or even 'avoid unprotected sex' article... I could be misinterpretting it though. To me, it seemed to focus more on the confusion women go through when it comes to sex, and the barriers they go through to get help from this confusion.

Most women, by nature, want sex to be intimate, so in their minds, sex becomes a very big thing. Guys, not so much. (Not saying this is everyone, but its very commonly seen this way.)

So if, for instance a girl starts dating a guy, has sex with him, and then 4 days later the guy breaks it off with her. The girl may be wondering what went wrong, but also, if the act so intimate for her meant NOTHING to this guy. She gets confused as to how this can be (as most women cant get into men's heads... at least, I cant), and falls into a depression because of it. The depression isnt because of the break up, but because she feels so utterly used by the guy.

And because of so many people looking down on sex without marriage, or even sex in general, where does the girl turn to without feeling judged?

Er... that was my impression at least. But it's also my experiences and interpretations involved.

Jam it back in, in the dark.