Larry Oji, Super Moderator, Judge, "Dirge for the Follin" Project Director, VG Frequency Creator
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Dec 2006
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Jan 2, 2008, 06:44 PM
Local time: Jan 2, 2008, 07:44 PM
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Nah, it's not selfish, you should ask her for your stuff. If you're sure that the friendship between you two has died and you don't have any regrets about it then there's nothing you can lose by asking her for your stuff.
That should help you feel more like you're closing that chapter of your life...
It's not about hating her or not for her behaviour or changing as a person, people do change sometimes and they're just not as compatible anymore as they used to be. Sure, it hurts to end a friendship in such terms, but clinging to a dead friendship will just hurt you more and more and in the end.
You should ask her for your stuff and sever all ties you have with her. If she doesn't care you shouldn't either. At least you'll think less about her that way.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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