Dillemma: Asking friends for money

Personally, I think it's O.k. to borrow money from friends/family members etc if you are in that situation. Don't feel like you're perfect and that you cannot do everything yourself. Things happen in life, and you have to do the best thing to overcome that problem.

Asking money from a few friends isn't bad, if the situation only happened once. Now if it's a constant problem like friends asking all the time, then that's a problem.

I remember I had a friend that would always ask for money and I would gladly give him money, without really caring if he would pay me back right away. But it came to the point that it was a constant thing. Luckily, I've driven away from him and now I don't have to deal with that problem anymore. If a person gets in a problem a lot of times and will never learn from their mistakes not to do it again, then I'm sorry. But, I was more than happy to help out. It took me a while to realize that it was just taking advantage of my kindness and friendship.

But, I've been in situations that I needed money and friends would lend me money too, and I paid them back. You shouldn't feel in debt, just think of it as a burden that came up and you needed help to fix the problem.
^_^ but I know how you feel, and you shouldn't wear yourself down to the thought that you are a person that doesn't need help from anyone. Everyone needs help some time and it's o.k. That's my view. ;þ

Jam it back in, in the dark.