Letting go when friendships die forEVAR.

Ok so recently, someone I knew, I realized over time what a right arrogant asshole they are, and in a recent dramafilled convo he is now severing all ties with me and even did the childish MSN block because he ended up pissing off his emo crush and blames it on me. Because I'm friends with the guy and am not an asshole like him. He also blames me for "embarassing him" on a forum and various other baseless paranoia...I could go on but I'd rather not.

I'm also hosting his site which he never updates. I have been tempted to cut him off my hosting but that's immature. He says he wants me off his dead and crap site (ohnoes whatever will I do) and he wants off the hosting but I'm waiting for him to pull his pages off it because I'm not the type to pull hosting because that's lame, and he'll most likely spread some lame rumour about how I pulled his hosting because he's that sort of person.

So now me and him are seemingly done for real, I wanted to save our last chatlog for posteirity so I could lol @ it later, but due to my own stupidity I accidently ended up losing it forevar by closing the window.

First Q: Accidently losing the chatlog is for the better, right? Good re-beginnings and such.

Second Q: how does someone phase someone else out of their life despite still harbouring a lot of hatred for this guy for all the shit he's done and won't admit to? I want him to get his comeuppance so badly, and he will, but....should I let time do that?

Third Q: The comeuppance. I feel bad about it. He is an asshole, but like with my asshole father, one of these days it's gonna come back and bite him on the ass and hard, and I feel bad that I'm gonna be gone, but it's his own fault, right? He said himself he "doesn't want my help" but I know how people change and such. I'm just not very good at this "people getting what they deserve" thing. I'm the one who still feels sorry for the bad guy when he pleads for mercy before the good guy kills him. Is it better I let go of feeling guilty too? Since that will only keep me here and stop me from "progressing"




but yeah. Obsessing over hating him is keeping me "stuck" and makes me as bad as him, right? Drop it and move on?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

K, thanks for advice all. ^_^ I would answer to each post but that would take too long. >_>

Yah, it's gonna take time because I suck at things like this a little, but I have decided I am to cut him out of my life FOREVAR. He is too proud of himself to come back and try and start things again, and blindly believes that it is my fault all this shit happened to him.

But yeah, I've removed the hosting, changed the pass, set up a little notice saying "hosting is gone blablablablabl asdasd *explanation*" and also sent him a "last email". Doubt he'll read it but w/e.

I don't rly want to hear from him again to be quite honest, seeing how I just got a job today, new beginnings etc. etc.

This is gonna be a little hard, and I'm a lil sorta nervous about it, as I've never done this sort of shit before, but when I've fully forgotten about him, I will be (as some of you have had happen already) I'll be all the more thankful for it in the long run.

So PROPS FOR ALL

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Yah, back when I was a moron, I actually thought what he said was right but after a certain incident I started to learn to dislike him and disregard what he said and that really, he was an idiot with an overinflated ego.

What's even funnier is that this guy is going to render himself socially inept because he once told me he's "immersing himself in the furry world". Hahaha. You know what furry immersal does to people. (My "clique" and the furry world intersect somewhat,btw)

He seems to have left a trail of people behind him pissed off with him before me, (he whined about how he was ostricized at those furmeet things), yet he's blaming them, and I am hoping he'll look back oneday and realize exactly what he did here. He is burning bridges at this rate and oneday will pay the price for it~

But yeah, forget bout the past, look forward to new future and all that.

Speaking of which, ironic rly, I've already started to make friends as soon as I dropped him.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.