How to cut off emotions for a someone

The ability becomes gradually more refined with emotional maturity. Of course, emotional maturity isn't contingent on age (to be fair). I wouldn't call it 'forgetting' someone as much as I would refer to it as 'getting over' someone.

It's become eerily easy for me to take an indifferent stance toward someone. I'm a realist with a very blunt edge. I have very few friends because too many are a distraction. I went three years without seeing my closest friend until we decided to throw a double birthday party for ourselves. He took off from work and flew to my state to chill for a bit before his semester started back up. I had to quit my job to make time to be a good host because they wouldn't grant me leave. They rehired me within 2 weeks, which was pleasant.

I never had an issue with girls. I got more attention than I gave. I've seen it happen where a chick sent her chick friend to advocate a relationship with me. The middle man and I started dating simply because we got to know each other in a way that can't be effectively relayed by a third party. Shy people don't deserve to be noticed, as much sympathy as I can have.

I guess the moral is...good job for being open with your feelings. It's bold. It's sincere. It's uncalled for when it involves someone else's girlfriend, though. Keep that in mind as a general idea and consider yourself fortunate if nobody harbors ill feelings for you now.

Ultimately, being comfortable with yourself is how you cope with 'getting over' someone. As long as you don't have some undying need for affection that you can't fulfill with your own hobbies, you'll be fine. If you're a virgin, you can look forward to losing it to someone you care about and becoming clingy and emotional, then getting dumped for someone else. It happens to all the heartfelt chaps. Just remember, the only woman you'll ever need is your mother, and she isn't good for much now that the deed is done.

Jam it back in, in the dark.