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I wouldn't listen to these people saying that if you're asking this question, you're not in love. That's nonsense. Everybody in a relationship ever will ask this question at some point. These feelings are absolutely natural.
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I have to say that I completely agree with this. Realistically, "love" or whatever you want to call that emotion that directs you and links you to another human being, grows and wanes all throughout a relationship. Love is very complicated and abstract so it's difficult to put into words since everyone thinks of and interprets love in different ways.
So what is love for you? Maybe love for you is that "fire" you talk about and you feel you've gotten to a point where it hasn't just waned but disappeared altogether. But like people already stated, you're just setting yourself up for disappointment and you really need to mature and realize that love is nothing like that. You have to re-evaluate your definition of what love is for you and apply it to the relationship, see if it's there or if it is truly lacking.
Overall what I think is that if you really feel strongly against this relationship, then don't force it. But seriously, just talk to her. You'll get furthur with the relationship and be able to analyze your position far better talking with your girlfriend than anything we can say. A key to a strong relationship is communication and if you are really honest and level-headed about it with her, then it'll probably save a lot of unnecessary issues from popping up in the future.
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