The "Change" phenomenon

Originally Posted by Ayos

have you observed this? Have you DONE this? Have you observed this in males as well? What do you think prompts this drastic rearranging of one's life, as it were - emotionally or otherwise? Let's get some insight, if at all possible.

I've noticed this myself.

One of the cases I will point out is an exgirl of mine from about two years ago. I broke up with her. Immediately after she cut her hair from about three feet to about three inches, dyed it from its natural black to a pink. She started wearing white make-up and dark eye-liner. She started wearing all black, and got many peircings. She moved to Nova Scotia, and started listening to Slayer, Lamb of God, and Static~X.

I'm not sure what exactly prompts this drastic change in ones life. I believe that one sort of prompt may be the loss of a dream (?) - she had wanted to get married, and I broke it off (it's not that I never will, but I was a freshmen in high school, and... well, not to her). Maybe it's the dramatic change one goes through emotionally and psychologically projecting itself phsyically.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I just realized today that I'm doing it now, too.

I don't know any other guy acting like I am right now.

I've changed my position in society, pulling away from people I love. I've become a loner. My hair colour... I'm trying to change it but after three bleaches it's still got a blue tint to the whiteness. I filled the emo stereotype until I realized that I want to kill someone else (which is much easier to satisfy).

I normally don't attach to someone like I did just recently, but that was my naive little mistake. Now, everything must change.

There's nowhere I can't reach.