Am I doing something wrong? ... =(

You might be a looser. You might not be.

It may be you, it may be the situation. As you explained it, it sounds like it could be situational. You just need to get out there and get to know people. Be your self, and be honest. You may get scorned for it here and there, and it can hurt. However, when you find someone who likes you for who you ARE and not who you pretend to be... its very rewarding and self fulfilling. And while it lasts, nothing else matters.

It can be hard to go out when you dont know anyone. But not gonig out isn't going to get you to meet anyone. The easiest way i've found to meet people, is acutally through my job. I work hospitality, and its a great way to meet people in my city. I work with different people all the time, but often enough to start a friendship. By doing this, you already have common ground, and dont have to pull for straws. Hell, it even pays decently for a kiddo.

Any girl whos worth their salt shouldn't mind you being a virgin. Actually, most the decent girls prefer less over more. Its easy to find a man whos willing to hump the common house plant.

Jam it back in, in the dark.