HAY GUYS

avanent · 10:52 PM

Me: 21, at University, currently seeing someone. Three part time jobs, which in the fall normally add up under than 15 hours a week. Come Spring, can be over 30 hours a week.

What do I notice first? Body frame, face, hair; in that order. Oh noes, shallowness; sorry, but I have to be attracted to them. Its not just looks, personality is actually MORE important, but its easier to judge looks first. Plus, some girls are great at projecting a false personality

Makeup? light makeup at max, anything more is actually a negative imo. The only one that actually makes a positive difference to me is eye makeup.

Tan? Doesn't matter. I find both tan and pale hot. If they do have a dark skin color, I prefer for it to be uninentional actually. Personally, tanning is a waist of time and resources, both short term and long term, especially with potential medical problems. Oh, and tanning beds are as bad as, if not worse for you, than the natural sun, so... I wouldn't say no to a girl who did in ignorance, but if she still did... the lack of concern for personal health would be a turn off.

Clothing? I don't always notice when girls have matching things, but when I do, I find it cute. I notice with the girls im already intrested in, seeing, or friends with. If I don't talk to you, I probably won't notice.

Originally Posted by RAZGRIZ-2

Also most of the guys I know prefer less makeup and not high maintenance. Did you ever think that maybe your whole "i'm a victim woe is me crap" is a turn off?

In my first serious relationship, I liked being the hero at first... but that shit grew into a nuisance real fast. Saving the day and all is nice every now and then, but being a hero everyday is a pain.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

avanent · Local time: Oct 17, 2006, 04:32 AM

Originally Posted by Domino

As for hair, well, any colour really so long as it has some length to it, I don't like women with short hair, don't know why but I just don't.

Ditto. Forgot about that, as I meet very few girls with short hair. Short hair on girls is generally less attractive imo.

Originally Posted by RAZGRIZ-2

How are girls not shallow? The correct answer is all people are shallow on some level. It's not gender biased. Get over yourself.

Psychology shows that while guys may be more shallow concerning in it for looks, alot of girls arn't exactly in it for love either. Girls tend to look at things from a more practical and secure aspect. Guys actually score higher on 'romanticism' scales than girls on average.

Guys tend to believe more in love at first sight, one true love, only one girl as the 'one', and etc. They just also tend to want to have a little more fun time than the opposite gender.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

avanent · Local time: Oct 17, 2006, 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by FallDragon

Anyway, it seems I usually have initial interest due to the level of physical attraction I have toward said person. Then I date her for a few months and find out she's a dumb bitch, and we break up and I cry. Not really. I'm very picky though. But I'm not as picky about looks as I am about personality.

A few months? Are you kidding there? Two weeks top(if deception is involved), and I can tell. Normally, its closer to 3-4 days. I haven't been involved with any 'dumb bitches' as I weed them out rather quickly, before they're even on the list of possiblities.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

avanent · Local time: Oct 19, 2006, 11:56 AM

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

But could you not simply approach the pretty girl, strike up a conversation, and then split if you realise she has all the intelligence of a hamster?

Thats what I do

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

avanent · Local time: Oct 22, 2006, 02:14 AM

Originally Posted by DarkWingedAngel

1- If looks can be deceiving, then why don't some people get to those who aren't 'hot' or 'sexy'? What's wrong with the average looking one? It's one argument that came up in our class. If you know that you can't always base someone's personality off their looks, then why do you do it? It is human nature but why not just TRY to get to know the girl that's not as pretty?

If being pretty or not being pretty is not realted to a good personality, then why go after someone less pretty if they have the same chance of having a good personality.

I was speaking idiomatically.