Love or sex?

Definitely love. Being single can be nice, but eventually you get really lonely and want someone to love and care for.

Also it depends on what you mean by they are bad in bed also. If it was a female, how would they be bad in bed? Just lay there like a lump on a log? Show no passion or any enjoyment? Other than that I don't know if I would classify it as bad, just not as good as others. Unless the girl's vagina is insanely big so anything easily fits up there, sex is always going to feel good.

I think it is much easier for guys to have bed issues. Like if the guy ejaculates in like 2 seconds every time then I could see how there could be major problems. Also if there are issues with impotence and stuff. But things can be done to fix those to work with someone you love.

Unless the girl has an insanely big vagina or the guy has an insanely small penis, I really can't see how the sexual issues can't be worked with to be improved if you really love that person. Also for it to be that bad to where it is that much of a problem is really rare anyway.

So anyway, my point is that if you love them you can always work on the sex thing later to improve it if it is an issue. But finding someone you love isn't easy.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I don't think you can "fall in love" with someone who you aren't attracted to, so the fat girl thing is a bad example.

Falling in love is both sexual and platonic. Otherwise it is no different from loving a pet or family member.

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Originally Posted by a lurker

I don't know. If someone says they fell in love with a person they don't consider attractive, I'm willing to believe them. I don't know better than other people how they feel.

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dammit nadi

I wouldn't buy it for one second. I don't think you can truly "love" someone romantically unless you look at them every day and say to yourself that you have no desire to sleep with another woman. There has to be something about that girl that makes you romantically attracted to her. Even if it is just a sexy voice.

We are human beings. We are not machines. We have natural desires that need to be fulfilled, and sexual desires are one of them.

Someone may love a girl they don't find attractive, but not romantically. Like a sister maybe. I have friends who I don't find attractive that I can say I love. Not romantically, but I have strong feelings for them, and would be devastated if something happened to them.

I could marry one of my best female friends who I don't find attractive at all, and say I love her. But it is a different kind of love. Not romantically, which typically is the kind implied when talking about sex, marriage, etc.

But this whole debate is skewed because the word love has so many varying definitions and degrees.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Well for one consider his feelings. It probably eats him up inside knowing he can't please you when you want all the time. It probably pains him that he can't.

But you have to do what makes you feel right. If you truly honestly feel like you love him, then I would stick it out with him. Only you can make that call though.

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