Very tricky situation. Need some clever ideas

I've asked a few friends and none of them gave worthwhile ideas. Here is the situation:

There was some girl I knew(but not that well) when I was about 13(who I liked a lot back then) that I saw again recently. She still looks great, but when I saw her I nodded and she nodded back, but it wasn't much. I think she remembered me slightly. I'd like to go out with her sometime, but I really don't have an "in" to ask her without completely blowing my chances.

I have no real way of hanging out with her and getting to know her more, considering we aren't even friends(and weren't really friends before), and also I don't know anyone she knows to kinda bridge the gap between us. I don't know her daily routines, so I can't keep running into her to the point where eventually I could strike up a conversation. Also I can't just ask her out next time I see her, because I'll get rejected. I need to get to know her first.

Very tricky situation and looking for some ideas. Never been in a situation this tricky before. Most girls I like I usually have an "in" with them. This one I have no in.

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The hard part about that is I'm going to have to run into her luckily again. It was the first time I saw her in a long time. I may never see her again. So if I do I need to make it right.

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The latter. I was leaning toward what you guys were suggesting, but the only problem is we weren't really great friends even back in the day in the first place. So it isn't like we are catching up. We barely talked. She was a friend of an old friend that I used to hang out with. Sometimes she was present when we hung out, but we barely talked at all. That friend moved away, and I never talked to her again. I saw her occasionally, but never said anything as the years passed(up until I was about 16) and she got really pretty, and matured a lot(body-wise).

To be honest, when I nodded and said hello, she may have not even recognized me and possibly just nodded to be friendly. So if she doesn't remember me, and even if she does, we weren't really friends in the first place, I can't really just start talking to her. It would be the exact same thing of me talking to a total stranger basically.

I'm still considering it, but I need to find a way to get close without seeming stalkerish. I don't even remember her name to be honest.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Not afraid of her, but some girls aren't into it. I've tried to chat up strangers before that weren't into it. The only thing is, I really find this girl attractive and have liked her for a really long time. Also she's a lot younger than me(like 3 years) and maybe 4. I really don't want to blow this opportunity.

First I need to find out if she's into the small-talk chatty stuff. Some minor stalking on myspace might be required as a prerequisite. Of course I need to find out her name first.

I consider it like a dating scouting report.

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Going to try to find her myspace so I can see what she's up to and more about her. I'll try that first. Don't know anyone currently who knows her. I'll have to find another way of finding it.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by kinkymagic

I dread to think about how people lived without the internet.

I've thought about it many times. But I'll never hesitate to use it to my advantage.

This honestly could be the first time in my life that I could be with a girl that I have a strong attraction to. I've never experienced before because I was never all that attracted to anyone I was with before.

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Well if anyone cares anymore, I ran into(sorta) this girl again today for the first time since I started this topic. It wasn't the same place as before, but I saw her around walking somewhere as I was driving down a local street.

I'm starting to lose patience. She has like the perfect face for me, but my chances of running into her where I can strike up a convo are just extremely thin. I rarely see her, and when I do it is in a way where I can't talk to her without seeming like a total nut. Like today to talk to her, I'd have to to a U turn to the other side of the street, slam the breaks pull over and jump out of the car.

I was hoping that I'd just bump into her on the street or in a store, but the chances are slim at this point. I probably won't run into her again at all for a while. It has been a month since the last time, and could be longer for the next.

So I'm thinking at this point desperate times call for desperate measures. Maybe operation Jason Bourne(stealth-stalk) is in order. Not the hardcore stalk, but to find out where she lives so I can plan something at least. I couldn't find her anywhere online so that is out.

Yes, I am that desperate btw. At my current age, I'm looking for someone I could potentially start a life with, and this girl has the perfect face for me, so that is a start. Of course she could be a total psycho, but I'll never find out if I don't talk to her, and to do that I have to snatch her up.

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I found her on myspace a week or so ago. It didn't really give me any ammo to talk to her. It has like no info about her, but strangely she logs in every day.

I'm gonna friend her and see what develops.

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Sorry for the lack of updates fellas. Been kinda busy lately.

Anyway, the update is I gave up, and then shortly after I gave up I found out she had a boyfriend so it wouldn't have worked anyway.

I was really attracted to her, and only used myspace for monitoring, but I realized it just wasn't going to happen. I found out I know someone she knows and talked to them about her and she very much isn't my type anyway.

So that is the end of that. I've moved on for a while now so she's long gone in the rearview mirror.

Jam it back in, in the dark.