I gots a nü gurlfriend

I thought most Mexicans were Christian, particularly Catholic. Is this a grossly exaggerated stereotype or are you simply within the minority?

Anyhow, she's young and she probably hasn't identified which is more important to her in life: faith or romance. There are compelling arguments for both but she's known faith longer. Faith fits into her world like a comfy pair of slippers, whereas you're a stiff, new pair of dress shoes.

Conversion into a new faith is a big leap. Ultimately, you have to do it for your own reasons and not for the sake of keeping another person in your life. In relationships, so many things can drive a couple apart, there's no guarantee that joining her church will ensure years of fidelity. If and when the breakup occurs, what of the church? What of your supposed new faith? If that lifestyle isn't already something you desire, it won't bring you closer to anybody else. It may only serve as a source of resentment; when relations are strained, you'll see the church as a paid sacrifice whose offering has not been returned in kind. Your existence within the church - the prayers, the sacraments, the teachings - will you commit to these things in sincerity or will your involvement be a series of lies? You have to know the answer to that, and if the answer is "lies" or if you don't know the answer, then joining her church is not the path you require.

As your description suggests, I believe she is creating a precedent, a way out of the relationship if one becomes necessary. The eventual choice between faith and romance is probably a truthful one but she's raised the issue several times, she's got an escape route if any number of circumstances requires that the relationship come to an end.

But for each time she's brought this matter up, she's clung to you for several more days. She's bracing for a possible impact - so to speak - but I honestly don't think she wants the relationship to end. It seems more likely that outside forces will end it for her and she doesn't want it to come as a shock to anybody.

So, enjoy it day to day. I'm inclined to think that it won't last too long - she's already established a context for its demise - so don't go rushing in on the expectation that she'll be in your life for years to come. Enjoy her now and don't worry too much about things you can't necessarily control. If she keeps delaying the relationship's end, then perhaps her priorities will change and she'll find reasons to put you ahead of her faith. If she does, consider it a pleasant surprise.

But don't go messing with your faith because it's what she wants. If it's not for you, no girl will be able to change that, and no good relationship can be built upon such a colossal lie.

How ya doing, buddy?