HAY GUYS

Leknaat · May 16, 2007, 01:12 AM

The question I have is:

How OLD are you?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Leknaat · May 16, 2007, 01:42 PM

I'd imagine 17 or 18.

He could also be 16, since "last years of high school" is specifically vague. But, I'll go the middle route and say 17.

And my advice--drop it. Sounds like he's not interested in ANY type of relationship.

You moved too fast, my friend. You should have cultivated a friendship first--not online, but in person--which would have been easy since you two know the same people. This way, both of you would have been more comfortable with each other.

And, he says he doesn't want to be outted--respect that some more and back off from the pursuit. You never know, he might one day say, "I'm ready."

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Leknaat · May 17, 2007, 12:22 AM

Well, that's just it--he's already told him that he likes him. Now the problem is going from that to: "Wanna be fuck buddies?" It's a pretty big step for someone at that age, especially when the other person doesn't want to be outted.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Leknaat · May 17, 2007, 12:28 AM

It's HIGH school...you KNOW how people talk.....

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Leknaat · May 17, 2007, 12:39 AM

Originally Posted by Denicalis

I fucked plenty of people's girlfriends in high school. Very few of them ever got out to the public knowledge.

Why am I laughing at this comment? WHY?!

But, seriously, just do group things with your friends and talk during those times. As I said before, get to be more comfortable with each other first.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Leknaat · May 17, 2007, 12:57 AM

The only reason I say "get comfortable" is because the other guy seemed chicken shit about the whole "I like you" thing. If they hung out a little more, he'd see that ravel isn't someone to be scared of.

And, besides, a lot of people ARE turned off by someone they barely know saying, "wanna be fuck buddies?"

Strange, I know....

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Leknaat · May 17, 2007, 01:30 AM

Well, ravel, you've already started cultivating a relationship online. Ask him in an e-mail if he wants to do something. No pressure. No strings attached.

Play a video game, play basketball, skateboarding--whatever. But make sure he knows there are no strings attached. And if he still feels awkward, tell him to bring a friend, and you can, too.

Since you're a year apart it's harder--I made my friends through my classes and interests.

Part of my problem is: I'm a talker, so I talk to people all the time.....

FELIPE NO