Sex. Before or after?

Technophile:

You're making it sound like two people meet, Person A says "Let's fuck," Person B says, "Okay." and that's that.

You DO realize people tend to talk to each other, right?

And yes, you can figure out if someone is right for you within 2 hours or however long you're talking.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Technophile

I know leeknat. But, sometimes people have really good sexual chemistry with strong physical attraction, but it pretty much ends there, so it's not like talking after the sex will make the relationship grow farther. In this case, if one person was infatuated by the other, then he or she pretty much had a sexual encounter in hopes of getting more only to be dissapointed.

Now let's go the reverse.

How many people who are friends with someone hope that could could be more--but it never happens? Isn't that as frustrating as well?

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Technophile

That is also frustrating. However, I think having sex with someone in the hopes of developing more (especially if you're the type who's not really into casual sex) would be a lot more emotionally taxing.

Wait.

Have you been talking about the whole sex/love confusion thing? That sex and love are interchangeable?

Here's a lesson for those who may not know--Sex is the response of the body--Love is the response of the heart, the mind, and the soul. You don't have to love someone to respond to them physically.

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