Am I doing something wrong? ... =(

The problem with the advice you people are giving this aspiring pick-up artist is that no-one knows what it means to "be confident". Sisters are always telling their lonely social reject brothers, "be more confident" and "women love confidence" but the poor sod is always left wondering how to go about it.

The key thing, as I see it, is this; people are always giving away signs that women interpret as indicating insecurity or lack of confidence. Walk with a stooped posture: lack of confidence, walk too quickly: lack of confidence, talk too quickly, or quietly: lack of confidence, tell a woman you'll love her until the end of time: lack of confidence, indicate any sort of interest in a woman whatsoever: lack of confidence. These are all basic things that women look out for, even the so-called "smart" or "sensitive" ones.

Let me ask you this question; when you walk through a crowded mall, are you ducking and weaving out of other people's way? Or are they ducking and weaving out of your way?

What I'm saying is that there are certain relatively simple behavioural changes you can make, and once you make them and see the results (like women getting all horny and stuff) you will start to feel more confident.

Jam it back in, in the dark.