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Whatever you do, DON'T take a girl to a movie or a concert on your first date. First dates are about getting to know each other, and how are you supposed to talk in a movie or at a concert?
For a first date, I'd suggest something short. Meet at a coffee shop then go for a walk...something like that. Actually, for the first few dates I'd steer clear of anything where your conversations will be limited. Save those kinds of dates for after you've gotten to know one another.
And let's be honest. There's nothing worse than realizing on the way to the theatre that you don't want to be out on a date with a guy, then realizing that you still have a two-hour movie AND a two-hour dinner to get through before you can go home and never have to see him again.
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VERY good points. And I have been lucky enough to take that advice myself. In fact, I am going for coffee tomorrow with a girl I just met at work over the past few days. I need to maximize interests and really get to know her. I will probably as her for a date to the movies or for dinner tomorrow.
But yeah, the first few dates should be able communicating. It shows that you really care about understanding the other person. It should help things out if you want to move more quickly in the future. Always set a strong base to start with. Women love men who make them smile and laugh. It seems to be a lasting impression.
All the romantic stuff can be done at the 4th or 5th date, possibly even later if you are the more patient type.
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