Question: What is this thing you call 'obligation'?

Originally Posted by Plainsman

First of all, you have an obligation to tell her you're already losing interest. Why drag it out even longer?

I agree. Be honest right away. I mean if you can't call her back for no apparent reason than you are going to have to say that it can't go on. I had the same situation a few weeks back. Even though I liked her, I didn't have enough interest, and within a week or so, she noticed and started complaining a bit, and I told her that I couldn't lie to myself or her that I wasn't interested enough to keep it going. In the end, I saved myself and her from having a lot more pain in the future.

Jam it back in, in the dark.