Your Occupying Romances (Crushes!)

When I was 15, I had my first crush... yep she literally crushed me. After I was crushed by her rejection, I fell into a depression/self pity stage. In grade 11, I ended up failing three classes and one credit short of not graduating...

I got over it with help from a close friend, and in Grade 12 figured out my life and did very well in the last two years of High School (Grade 12 and OAC).

These days, if a girl turns me down, then whatever. Just got to move on. Generally, I think about the girls I know, the potential etc., but in the past few weeks, I just play it cool. And if someday I peak a girl's interest, then we will see what goes on from there. I find after about age 20/21, crushes don't really affect everyday life. I mean, you are either going to do something about it or not.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Dude, I told a story.

I define a crush as being someone who you fall for quickly, but you never really approach or attempt to make any real move to either a) get to know them, or b) or make any sort of process that would allow an opportunity to ask them out somewhere. Crushes usually involve you very rarely connecting with them mostly due to the fact you are to afraid to talk to them. In the end, when you finally make a move its too late and they know that you have been secretly attracted to them and they response negatively. Their negative response crushes you.

Hence the term crush.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I guess all you have to think is a lurker is sarcastic over 75% of the time and that can help you in the long run.

But yeah, 20 crushing on 14. Personally, I don't even know how you would be able to relate in anyway a crush on someone that age. I am sure that there are plenty of other women more around you age that you can be crushed on. I know even in my case at 22, there are many girls that would be much more worth being crushed. Anyway, I would suggest you uncrush yourself from her.

Although, I have to admit, this thread was a pretty good thought.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Ok, I believe you this time lurker. Consider this your 25%.

These days, I stay away from Crushes. They are a waste of time. If you like someone, do something about. Tell them as soon as possible that you have some sort of interest. If they find out from someone else that you may like them, then everything goes down the drain, and you get crushed. That is what happened to me... Good thing I am friends with her now, although I rarely see her. I did see her the other day though.

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