Do you ever get the response?

Hey guys,

Just curious, have you ever asked the question to a girl (or in the other case, a guy) "Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?" And they answer, "Well, sort of." or "Yeah, but not to sure what's going on" or "Its kinda unstable right now..." etc. Something along those lines.

The thing is, I get this answer often. Possibly, they are doing it to get ride of me, but they actually do have boyfriends. Its not to scare me away or anything.

Question: Why do you think people in relationships answer this way? Do you think they feel confident about their relationships? Just trying to get attention from someone else?

Would be an interesting insight....

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Damn.... I hate giving mixed signals.... just complicates things. I am a very honest person.... too honest sometimes. And as a result, I can get carried away in my ramblings. I have a hard time "playing the game" because I think it just messes things up. I just want to be straight out...

Are you saying I shouldn't be.... so much?

There's nowhere I can't reach.

:WOW:

Like seriously, that is how I used to be... geezzz... I really need to lay back. I have been so worried about trying to make the right impression, be careful etc., when I should just be casual, interesting, and just be myself. If she does want to go have a good time or something, then fine. I will just have to move on.

Thanks guys!

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Ayos

Eh. I'm not one to say that one thing will always work without exception - just that it HAS so far for me... and honestly I can say I've gotten about ten times as many dates THIS way, than I ever did a year or so ago being the overly-nice gentleman about asking girls out. When you make a big deal about it, the girl makes a big deal out of it, and gets uncomfortable.
Me: "I was wondering if you'd like to go out to dinner sometime."
Her thoughts: "...well that was unoriginal. But he is a nice guy. I guess I could..." She says: "Sure, that'd be fun."
Me: "Great!"
Her, an indefinite amount of time later: "Hey, sorry, um, I can't go, I had something come up, maybe some other time, okay?"
Me: "Okay, cool, yeah no big deal." *... YU H8? *

Sound familiar, at least vaguely?

Yep, that has happened to me. In many cases, even for the most simple invitations (such as a movie, coffee, etc). Obviously, I need to try something different. Because currently, the way I am doing things, haven't got me much for positive results.

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