What About Classmates?

Ok, so there is this girl who sits across from me. We chat a bit and kid around often in class, commenting and whatnot.

I am thinking about asking her if she would like to go out for coffee or something sometime. But I am worried that I will get the response I have a boyfriend or something... What would I say then?

When do you think would be the best time asking her for coffee? Or should I wait and get to know her more before class starts. We have class at 3 hours a week, meeting twice a week.

I probably shouldn't feel nervous about it... but like I said in the other thread, I seem to be having trouble lately about approaching women... Grrr.... pisses me off actually.

So what do you suggest? Have you ever experienced a similar situation?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Well, one month later, I got an update.

Yesterday, I asked her for coffee after class. Her and I had been getting along very well in the past month and I figured now was just as good as ever. Especially considering I wanted to find out her stance because there is another girl I just met who I had a good time with over the weekend.

So, we were just walking outside and I ask "Would you like to go for coffee sometime?" She chuckles a bit and goes "You mean, like friends?" I said "Well, if you like." She goes "Sure, sometime when I have time." I then gave her my number and email address.

I would say, she is A) Not interested and/or B) In a relationship or C) Too busy to care.

Oh well.... so much for trying. At the very least I have a study buddy!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I just gave her my number.

Which I guess begs another question. Do you generally give a girl your number? Or do you just get hers, especially in the this situation?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Do what exactly? Other than going for a cup of friendly coffee, there is nothing else to expect. And I do not presume to expect anything.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?