Quiet vs. Shy

I am very outgoing, and usually am the one to strike up conversation, but at the same time, I am not a loud guy.

In terms of quiet versus shy, well, I had a shy girlfriend, but after about a month being with me, she was about as outgoing as me... So it must catch on....

I also was with a quiet girl, and find it frustrates me a little. Since I am a little outspoken sometimes (meaning I talk to much), when I try to tell her to say something, or talk about something, she refuses too... but at the same time, she enjoys hearing me talk...

Bascially, if I am with a shy girl, she will eventually become more outgoing, and if I am with a quiet girl, she should at the very least enjoy listening to me. Otherwise it probably wouldn't work out...

How ya doing, buddy?