First "breakup"

Originally Posted by russ

Dude, don't give back any stuff that she gave you. You don't expect her to return anything that you gave to her do you? Borrowed items are different...

Furthermore, throw them away. Anything that reminds you of her, be gone with. Trust me.

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Basically you need to take this opportunity to get back into any hobbies or activities that you neglected while with her, if any, and just do your own thing. You'll be emotionally fine before you even know it.

Additionally, stop talking to your friends about it. Listen to Metalcore. You'll find that listening to people scream and growl in such a way that you can't understand will help. You won't know what they're saying but you'll know they're talking to you. Try Between the Buried and me. They grind until you're just about ready to rip your ears off, then midsong they break into a beautiful ballad, and just when you're about to shed a tear, they grind some more. Trust me. Get a guitar. Make it a point to learn how to express your angst in a non-fagtastic manner. You can't go wrong with music. Even the whiniest emotions become beautiful when expressed in song. Just don't write lyrics because you'll defeat the purpose.

Jam it back in, in the dark.