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 Member 1285 Level 26.51 Mar 2006 
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I've had similar experience. Right when I entered college, it was as if my entire life flipped over. Not necessarily in a bad way. You make new friends, and from my experience, friends who share similar goals and hobbies as you. I find that more intriguing than my high school acquaintances, who were generally more interested in what t-shirts to wear or guys they like. Sometimes the drift is so great that even talking to them on AIM becomes difficult, much else, the phone.
But change, as one of my professors say, is the only constant. It saddens me to think I only have so little time left with my college mates, and I probably won't ever find a more common group of friends. As for high school, my friends, even the few close ones I held, gradually drifted from me. College is just time consuming, and the people you spend it with everyday makes it more bearable. Unlike high school, to me. If your friends feel like they can't keep their end of the bargain, maybe it's time to let it drift. Eventually, if anyone really wants to keep the relationship together, someone will contact you, and you can then see where that goes. Otherwise, be prepared to basically never talk to them again, unless you go to a university where all of your friends go to (I didn't). Jam it back in, in the dark. |
Member 1285 Level 26.51 Mar 2006
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Regarding dorming, yes, I live in a dorm, and I plan to do so for all 4 years of my college life. There are pros and cons to on/off campus, but the main point I like to stress is that I only have 4 years to actually live with my friends and the rest of my life not to, so why start living off campus early? Basically that's my theory. If money is an issue, then by all means live off. For me it's basically the same cost on/off. I know a few people who live off campus but come on campus so much that it seems like they live on. It's all on how those people deal. If you really want to make close friends, join clubs, and stay on campus longer than you need to. You might meet some interesting people and know familiar faces.
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