My Grand Romantic Gesture (thread 2.0)

Perhaps the stage of liking this guy will pass, who knows. Since you think this guy is attractive, then maybe his attractiveness allowed her to keep seeing him. Hell, if I was approached by an attractive guy right now, I wouldn't mind dating him around for a bit. Same could go for you if an attractive girl came up to you and asked for a few dates. Doesn't necessarily mean a committment.

And as a college student myself, it seems insulting you are generalizing him for where he goes to. Are you and her out of college?

It seems slightly obsessive the way you talk about her, and how you want to marry her someday when you haven't even been in a relationship with her. I would suggest opening up to other girls and letting your options loosen a lot. I don't know how she feels about you, but the way it looks realistically, you're not the first guy on her list at the moment. =\

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by sprouticus

Well, she didn't say no. She didn't say much after I said my piece except what I said she said. To reiterate, she said that she was glad I told her, I had big balls for doing it, and that she was about to cry (dont know how true that last one is). Either way, I still never got a definitive yes or no answer on this whole thing.

That to me sounds like a no. When it comes to turning guys down, especially decent guys, it's really the hardest thing in the world for me. There's no easy way to do it. Just prepare for the worst. Perhaps you took it the wrong way and she meant it as a nice turn down. Usually if I say things like that to a guy, no matter what I say, he'll feel bad about it.

If she likes you and you did all of that for her, most likely she wouldn't have said those exact words. I would literally be thrilled if the guy in my mind did that for me. Did you take note of her body language, like did she burst into this uncontrollable smile? Or did she have stars in her eyes?

There's nowhere I can't reach.