I can't dance, going to clubbing

No one is going to judge you at a club. Everyone else is busy drunk, staring from the sides and corners of the room like weird stalkers, or having a hell of a time. My advice is to just go with the flow, move all your limbs, and don't be afraid to use your arms. Too many people I see just stand there, two legs planted, and bounce around on their knees. Gets drab after a while.

And moving to the rhythm is the first step to looking like you know what you're doing. Just move to the beat.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

That sounds weird. If she wants to cuddle with you then, for me, that's a sure sign she likes you. I personally wouldn't get physically intimate with someone unless I like him. Maybe she thought that kissing was too soon or moving too fast. I wouldn't think too much on it. Instead, focus on how to deal with the situation next, like asking her out, etc. until she is comfortable to kiss. Asking is very polite. Pat yourself on the back for that!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Seriously... don't play hard to get. I think women are more suited for that role, but men? That's just ridiculous in my eyes. If you really like her, show it. But don't be too obvious like stalker like, that'd be creepy. Play it cool. Ignoring her is the worst thing you can do.

On the topic of younger guys, if this girl doesn't like you because you're younger, maybe she's not for you. I know some girls stick to this terrible older guy stigma (I encountered one that solely wants to date guys 5 years older than her!) that makes me want to puke, and their reasoning is terribly outdated and molded by societal traditions. Age, especially two years younger, is not an issue for me. But if she assumes something about your personality that comes with your age, I would put that as a red flag.

Double Post:
Didn't read your latest post. It seemed like the day was successful. Hanging out with her cousins was good; it shows you're caring, good with kids. I would ask her on another date.

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Originally Posted by Hydelloon

ps: Don't tell her, ever, that you have been receiving tips from a gaming site. Don't even drop a hint of it

Unless you want to become a (sort of) reincarnate of Densha Otoko.

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If you must give a gift, give a single flower, but not a rose. I feel like a rose is too early in the relationship; it also might give her a signal that you're moving too fast. Give something summery, like a lily or daisy or something. I would like that more than a rose. That is, unless you know for sure she likes you. Watching a sunset with you is a sure sign she's hinting at you, and if that's the case, by all means I would give her a rose, maybe even a red rose.

If she's not interested, gifts will definitely lead to awkwardness. But I think a gift will be fine.

I was speaking idiomatically.

There's no need to get her a zoo gift: it doesn't seem personal. A gift that relates to your visit to the zoo without her is going to end up in a corner of her room. Just do something with her.

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The surest way to figure her out is to just spill the beans. Tell her that you enjoy her company, and ask if she feels the same way. If she fumbles, chances are your fears are right. And the part about you moving, tell her that too, and regardless of how she responds to your question (about liking you) end with a positive note about how you'd like to meet up with her again and how maybe another day you'll like to spend more time with her and her cousins.

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Originally Posted by gaming

We're still going to the theatres with her cousins on thursday.

That sounds good. What movie?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?