Listen to me, dammit!

I agree with what some others have said here about not appearing 'too desperate' to fit in or be liked.

However it can be really difficult for some people to do this: people who kind of naturally think about things too much rather than go with the flow.

You should also accept that some people are assholes and will block you out no matter what you do. Do not let these people give you a bad experience which will make you even more desperate to fit in elsewhere and thus the cycle repeats itself.

It's a tough situation you are in because you have perfectly good outgoing intentions but unfortunetely these intentions will not pay off with the majority of people. They will most probably pick up on your desperation and perhaps get distracted by it.

You might want to try and get some sort of balance between talking to people yet not appearing like your life depends on it.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by FallDragon

Don't have it be trivial bitching though. Then people will just think you're whiney. Best way I find to make friends is to be able to make jokes of anything and everything. Which is probably why I don't have many friends who are strongly religious <.<

Yep, I agree with this. Making jokes out of situations, scenarios and people puts people at ease with you, i have found. Unfortunately being serious about things puts people off most of the time.

There's nowhere I can't reach.