Am I doing something wrong? ... =(

Originally Posted by Erocental

I did go to University but I dropped it because the course wasn't for me and I couldn't understand it... was a bad University as everyone left... but I will be going to a music college next year I think...

I just have been put down a lot too... and I can't think anything but that I am really bad looking even though everyone says otherwise... =(

I will give you some advice for when you go to University, I have been at University for a week now so I know some pitfalls to avoid.

The aim is to get a very good social start because if you do not get this right than it is going to get much more difficult afterwards. For my freshers week I made sure that everyone in our flats knew me or at least saw me plenty of the time.

I have seen quite a few people so far who have had a terrible start to University. After this bad start, they are already brand as 'reclusive', 'shy, etc. So, these people now have a negative label to overcome and people will treat them differently because of it. Basically, they are attracting the wrong kind of attention.

At first, meeting a lot of new people can be quite daunting and you will have some conversations that will be repeated with each person, such as:- background, what you are studying etc.

I also very much agree with Helloween that a change of environment is a good oppurtunity to start over.

Jam it back in, in the dark.