What do guys notice in a girl?

Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

Your first wife? Are you planning on getting a second one sometime soon or what? Here's a tip: Never refer to your wife as your "first wife" if you're planning on keeping her.

No, he lives in Colorado City, Arizona, where everyone runs a construction company and has multiple wives, and comes into Best Buy every Sunday asking "Do y'all have any AH-pods left?"

Ahem.

DWA, there are a few things I've realized lately about how women perceive men, and they kind of translate the other way around too - I just never realized it.
First of all, though... a person is born with what they've got. You're either ugly, attractive, or average. Duh. Most people are average-looking, very few people are truly UGLY, and about the same amount are naturally breathtakingly beautiful. Learning how to WORK with what you've got to MAKE it look more attractive is key. This is evidenced by all those celebrities and models that look like crap before they're fully awake. And the fact that I had no style at all when it came to clothes, and now I get compliments left and right on how well-dressed I am. Which has nothing to do with expensive clothing, cause I can't afford that. But it does have to do with distinctive style.

Before I go any further, I must stress that my favorite type of woman looks like this:
Between 5' and 6'
Anywhere between 120-180 lbs (e.g. not toothpick-thin, but no huge fat-rolls... just average)
Butt that's there but not huge
Boobs that are there but not huge (B-C cup, anyone?)
Nice teeth (not perfect teeth, just teeth that are taken care of)
Natural hair, longer is usually better, down not up, ponytails are hot
Little to no makeup
T-shirt and jeans or something equally comfortable, something that suits her if she meets the above characteristics.

Simple and natural. Yum.

Style isn't defined by expensive clothes, it's defined by how what you wear looks ON YOU, to other people. My advice to a girl would be much the same as my advice to a guy - if you wanna know what to wear, get someone of the opposite sex who has STYLE to take you shopping FOR YOU ... try on everything they suggest even if you're not sure of it.

So what do guys look for in a woman? The same thing women look for in men. Style, confidence, fun. If you're energetic and passionate, sufficiently unique compared to most, and you've got a generally appealing style, you can seem attractive - and then if you engage in entertaining good conversation, you can't do much more. If I meet a girl like that, I'm sold.

As for beneath the physical... well, you can't judge a woman based off of anything beneath the surface until you get to know her, so it's impossible to say what guys LOOK FOR that way. However what they like to come across when getting to know a woman, is in a way exactly the same as the physical - stylish, confident, fun. Energetic. Passionate. Unique. Intelligent.

Well, except those guys who just want sex and don't want to talk. Then you need to have a good body and no personality.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

zergkiller likes Amazons with only one large breast. Me, I prefer that my females keep both of them, but if one is gone, I can make do. Because there are plenty of other great qualities in wemon.

There's nowhere I can't reach.