What do you do when your family is falling apart...

You can't hold a family that doesn't want to be together together, no matter how hard you try, and you'll just destroy yourself trying. It's very noble of you to want to help, and to try to help, but in the end you cannot be the one to take responsibility for their lives. After a certain point, you have to just look out for yourself and let people do what they will. (They will whether or not you let them anyway.) It took me years to accept that, and wish that I could have sooner.

Stop Sign has a point, you need to get the perspective and assistance of someone with actual training.

Jam it back in, in the dark.