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I would choose mutual unconditional love for a lifetime over 3 or 4 great minutes in bed every now and then. There's nothing better than finding someone who you are truly compatible with, and being with someone like that for your whole life has to be exhilarating.
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Agreed. I've had amazing sex... but the guy was a loser at life and didn't care about me. He pretty much made me decide to go celibate for the rest of my life, because I couldn't take the ups and downs of life like that.
Later on, about three years, I met someone that makes life so worth living that being away from him is wretched. And he's the shy type in bed. I'm hoping in the long run that he'll gain confidence and we'll develop this amazing sexual bond... but even if that never happens I wouldn't even think of giving him up. There's too much to our relationship outside of the bedroom for sex to get in the way. We're so emotionally and mentally entwined that just laying with him and falling asleep is more contenting than any 'big event' in the past ever was.
Maybe I'll complain more when we've been married a while. *shrug*
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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