Am I doing something wrong? ... =(

.... and the practical side of what AliceNWondrland just said is to go where people are. In other words, know what you like doing and where to find people who like doing the same thing. I know that's kinda vague, but since we don't know you it's hard to say anything terribly usefull.

Volunteering is a great way to get out, if social stuff makes you nervous. (Try googling for volunteer opertunities in your city, or show up at somewhere such as the humane society and ask.) When you've gone somewhere for a purpose, and the focus is less on interaction, then it's easier.

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