Love or sex?

I sure do feel like the odd man out in this thread. I've got to say that I can easily imagine being in a relationship with someone where the sex wasn't great. Honestly I'm not even sure what it means to be good in bed anyway. I've never really understood the concept.

I've also got to ask... when people talk about sex, are they talking about just the "main event" or are they taking the whole sexual package? Especially if we're talking about someone who isn't good at the "main course" but whose other "side dishes" are just fine, that would be great as far as I'm concerned.

I don't find sex particularly important. I like it just fine, but it's not the most important thing in my relationships. In fact, I'd probably be the one who got dumped over something like this. I just don't have the sexual appetite that most people would look for in a partner. I'm in a relationship right now. Since it hasn't been all that long, I can't tell you whether it will last. What I can tell you is that my girlfriend has a similar view, and so we seem like we'd be compatible.

Jam it back in, in the dark.