Face or Body?

A woman's face is far more important to me than her body, with her eyes being the quality I find the most attractive in most women. Personally I like a woman with a round face and large eyes who doesn't wear a lot of makeup. Hair is also important. I really only find dark haired women attractive, in general.

When it comes to the body, I find different things attractive than most men. I like a fairly generously proportioned woman. I would even go so far as to say just a little chubby, so long as she isn't HUEG. I like big curves, and I have to admit that I'm a breast man.

However all of that is far less important than a pretty face, and a nice personality.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by blue

Here's what I tend to think when a guy says that; I think they have this image of a woman who is beautiful and toned like a model, but simply weighs more and has more curves/bigger breasts. Something like this:

I would say that that would be a grievous misperception, though; the vast majority of "chubby" women are not toned like that; there will be some flab and/or rolls to deal with. They probably will have bigger, natural boobs though. However, it's still encouraging to hear guys say that they don't dig the super-skinny chicks. Because let's face it, those chicks are getting fewer every decade.

I don't think my girlfriend would appreciate me putting her picture on the internet for all to see, but I will tell you that she doesn't look anything like the picture you posted. She's got quite a bit more curve than the woman in that picture, on every part of her body. She is still in proportion, rather than being so big that she's unhealthy, but she is built for comfort, not for speed. That's just the way I prefer it, and she knows that. I know my taste is an uncommon one, but that's just the way I've always been.

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I kinda take the opposite approach with guys; I prefer the "skinny" ones to the buff, muscular ones. I've kinda thought that a skinny guy is somewhat equivalent to a slightly chubby girl, that way. While girls worship thinness with regard to themselves, it is generally stereotyped as an "unattractive" boy quality, which is silly. Though, you know how girls think the "ideal" girl body is a lot skinnier than guys actually think it is? It works the other way around, too; a really buff guy can be as much as a turn-off as a super-skinny chick to the opposite sex.

My girlfriend says the same thing about buff, muscular guys. I'm not one of them, but I'm hardly skinny either. I'm 5'11 and somewhat over 200 pounds, but I'm neither toned nor especially flabby. I'm just kinda stocky, and though J could probably stand to lose a few pounds, I'm not going to worry about it.

There's nowhere I can't reach.