By the sea

Member 1161

Level 21.66

Mar 2006

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Apr 5, 2008, 01:58 AM
Local time: Apr 4, 2008, 11:58 PM
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Some people take a long time to know that they love someone. I'm one of those - it takes me months before I know.
That said, since you guys are graduating and perhaps parting ways after that, why not wait and see to see if he changes his mind? If it doesn't, and you go separate ways after graduation, then you can just let the relationship come to a natural end and move on.
Of course, I understand that if you do decide to hold on for a few months, it's going to be really hard on you because those months are likely to be filled with hurt and frustration. Take those few months to ask yourself if the happiness given to you by the good parts of the relationship is enough to outweigh your hurt. I'd also suggest going to your boyfriend with your feelings and seeing if he's willing to address them or acknowledge them. If he just brushes them aside - well, that's not a good sign of things to come, and in the long-term.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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