By the sea

Member 1161

Level 21.66

Mar 2006

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Mar 3, 2008, 06:56 PM
Local time: Mar 3, 2008, 04:56 PM
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1. Warmth. I think that's the most important thing of all - for me, a frigid personality is a dealbreaker. When I say warmth, I mean someone who's affectionate, caring and open. That's not to say they have to be like that 24/7, but it really sucks when the other person is generally cold and reserved - for me, since I consider myself to be a warm person to people I care about, dating someone like that is kinda like dating a statue.
2. Wit. I guess, people who are witty are by default fairly intelligent? I love it when I can banter and trade jokes with my girlfriend, and it's great when we're playing off of each other's senses of humor. And I love hearing people laugh, so that's important too.
3. Shared Interests And Views. I think this is fairly obvious - if there's nothing to do together, and talk about, it's just not fun. Similarly, I think that minor differences in worldviews are okay, but not major ones - it'll be hard for me to date a hardcore social conservative, for example, because our views would be so different on many things.
4. Looks - I'm not picky here. I'm good as long as the person is not obese or deformed in some way!
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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