How do u tell a guy that you don't want a relationship with him without hurting him?

Even so, you should just tell him straight out that you're not interested. It might be harsh, but it's the most decent thing to do. And I'm positive it won't cause any epileptic seizures. If you hurt him or not depends on how deeply he's fallen for you. If it's deep then it might be unavoidable. Better get it done with as quickly as possible. If he's a decent enough guy I'm sure he'll understand.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

If you want to do it subtly you could say somthing like "You're a great friend. You're like big brother(or "little brother" if he's younger) to me". That should make him start thinking about what kind of relationship you two have. If he doesn't catch the drift you should try telling him in a more direct manner.

However, I don't know exactly what you should tell him. It all depends on the cicumstances, I guess. Just try not to let him guess too much since that might confuse him. I've done it quite recently, actually, with a girl who told me she liked me. I told her directly how I felt about the situation and it eventually turned out ok.:

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Originally Posted by PiccoloNamek

Ouch, don't do that. You might as well just kick him in the crotch.

I say just be straightforward, but calm and not mean.

Haha, yeah, I know. But I couldn't find any other alternative to saying something w/o actually saying it directly. I also think saying it directly is the best course of action in this matter.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Give her a break, guys. You are really in no position telling her what she should and should not be able to do by now. Everyone has their own reasons for everything and she IS trying to do something about it, you know?

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