Sex: Take It Or Leave It

This is going to seem like a completely ridiculous post, but I'm going to type it anyway.

I agree with Sass, actually. Sex isn't fun unless there's tons of build-up. Sex without build-up is like drinking alone, it's no fun and often leaves a sour feeling in your gut. I do enjoy sex, but I will say that there are people who can put you into a slump about it and kill your desire.

In some ways I envy the people who don't have an immediate sex drive, it would make life a lot easier, then again it might make life kind of dull, too.

I wouldn't classify lack of sex drive as abnormal, especially since the people in this thread have expressed a desire for other physical forms of affection. Which is the way I felt until I found someone who showed me what an incredible experience sex could be. Not saying they need an awakening, because for them that's probably not it.

Now here comes the ridiculous part of the post:

For those who lack a sincere desire for sex, but may find themselves in a relationship where their partner wishes for intercourse-- there's ways of creating that desire. Namely, marijuana. I know you're thinking "But I'm not a drug addict," doing marijuana once or twice in your lifetime does not make you an addict. I will say that like alcohol it does foster the desire greatly, but it doesn't come with degradation in performance like alcohol, if anything it intensifies the stimulation. It also doesn't take much.

How ya doing, buddy?

How can you not love russ all the time?

Sex is an important part of a relationship, not just sex, but physical intimacy in general. Yes, it's only one part of the relationship, but those who think that it's some tertiary, remote, loosely related, nebulous, almost-non-entity are fucking kidding themselves. I would not be in a relationship with someone I could not/would not have sex with.

How ya doing, buddy?

Eddie Murphy had a really good stand-up routine he toured with in like '87 concerning this topic.

Women use the "I don't really want it" attitude as a tool to get what they want from their male counterparts. Withholding sex works, with most guys, for whatever reason. I think it's a stupid game, but pretty much all women do it, whether they admit it or not. Yeah, now I can see the backlash already. "OMG DUO YOU CHAUVANIST PIG" "THAT'S SO NOT TRUE, DUMBASS" What? You think all men were born yesterday?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

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Okay, so what if the woman wants good sex?

Even if the sex is good, they still use it as a tool.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

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No, you're not getting me. If a woman withholds sex in order to get what she wants, and she wants good sex, what does she do?

Probably finds it elsewhere.

I don't see what your point is. I said, "Women will withhold intimacy in a relationship to get what they want." Then, you basically say, "Yes we do, we like good sex, too." I think pretty much everyone likes good sex. What's your point?

I was speaking idiomatically.