No call, No show

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But they don't want to hurt your feelings and they'd rather just avoid the whole mess.

This is the fundemental difference between men and women. Men, or at least in my case, will tell you "Hey, I don't think this will work," "you're great, but I'm not attracted to you," or plainly "I find you to be dull."

I look at it this way: her body language will tell you alot. If she jumps your bone on the first date, she's either a) a slut (which is fine with me, a piece of ass is a piece of ass) or b) you did something right (probably unintentionally) and she's genuinely interested in you (although, option A is more likely). She makes out with you but doesn't sleep with you means "To be continued... go make sure you have condoms next time" which by extension means "I'm going to be seeing you again in the near future." If she gives you a hug and says, "I had a fun time, maybe we should do this again" she's uninterested and/or a Mormon.

Disclaimer: I am in now way trying to degrade or demean slutty women. I like dating slutty women, because I know that even if I do end up paying for the whole date, I'm getting something out of it. And, it's better than all of the negative social connotations associated with prostitution.

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Well, and then there are the girls that are psycho in their own regard and who would 'understand' what was going on (read: not think anything's wrong). Of course, if that's the case, you don't want to go out with her anyway.

You'd be surprised, actually, two co-dependent personalities jive pretty well in relationships. Because of the fact that they believe the behaviors they exhibit are perfectly normal.

Jam it back in, in the dark.