First "breakup"

OMG I MUST BE A HEATHEN BECAUSE I DRINK ALCOHOL.

Oh wait, I smoke cigarettes too! OMG.

Seriously, all of the people in here that are like OMG DRUGS R BAD, not constructive at all, because I can guarantee you most of them are ignorant to the subject, anyway. Do you guys eat cheeseburgers, or better yet take prescription "medications"?

Anyway, before I derail the thread. I know what you're going through, I remember my first break-up, and it wasn't the worst one I've been through, either. So, the first isn't always the hardest, but like many other things in life it's a learning experience. It's a good idea to hang-out more with friends, in fact, it's a good idea to hang out a lot with your friends while you're in the relationship, so as to avoid the shrinking social group effect that sometimes happens in long-term relationships.

Maybe it's just me, but I always find that just going back to dating again helps. You know, testing the waters, going out and having some fun, meeting new people. Sure, you may only go on a couple of dates with some of these other women you meet, but that's how you find the one you click with.

I just broke up with someone I had been seeing for awhile since I got back to San Diego, a few weeks ago. I went out with thes other woman and we've been getting along pretty well. It's fun and it's refreshing to know that there's always someone out there for you.

Jam it back in, in the dark.