How do you handle your pastlife?

No, no I'm not talking about reincarnation. It's just that some of us must be having rough times in past times, like being bullied, called nerds by the community, or maybe we did some unavoidable mistakes.

Sometimes these memories flooding my brain, make me feel angry to myself. The words "If only..." keep appears in my mind if I remember these experiences. I'm not typical guy who keep remembering the past, so it's easy for me to forgive and forget. But well, it's normal if you experiencing reconaissances thing or two right?

How about you? Are typical person who keeps remembering the past or you could just forget them and walk through the future? And how do you handle when these grudges come into your mind?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by sian

I think the only thing I look back on and it still gets to me would be the death of my best friend. Sometimes I think "if only.." but I realise that what happened has happened and when I look back I should focus on the memories instead of letting her death cloud all the good times we had.

Actually I feel the same with you. Sometimes I remember the memory of my Grandmother who passed out 6 days before my birthday. I love her so much that I always cry if I keep remembering her. You may say I'm weak, but I just couldnt help it.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

to be honest I didn't understand what you point out inyour post. Sorry, english is not my native language, please pardon my numbness.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.